found this which pretty much covers it
Personal Attributes of Leaders
Skilled Communicator. Able to clearly explain tasks and inspire others with varying backgrounds and perspectives.
Confidence. Poise, clear thinking under pressure, conviction in the course being set, and decisiveness are characteristics that earn the respect and loyalty of others.
Fairness. Treats people fairly, makes decisions consistent with clearly expressed standards of right and wrong. When handling disputes, the leader’s resolution engenders a feeling of justice, equal treatment and evenhandedness.
Generosity. A ‘giver’ rather than ‘taker’; a giver of time, knowledge and caring.
Honesty. Truthful and openly self-critical with regard to acknowledging own errors.
Humility. Modest about his or her abilities and always respectful of others.
Mastery. Makes decisions and demonstrates a high personal commitment to acquisition of knowledge, skill mastery and thoughtful action.
Passion. Performs work and play and approaches every task with passion and enthusiasm.
Optimism. Believes that everyone has something important to contribute to the success of the organization; creates an environment that is positive, hopeful and buoyant – a place of working, playing and human interaction that employees and student-athletes enjoy and value.
Selflessness. Puts the needs, interests and wishes of others before his or her own self interest. When the leader asks someone to do something, that person knows that what is being asked is for the larger good or good of another.
Trustworthy. Builds trust and confidence by acting in team member's best interest and not revealing confidential information.
-- Donna Lopiano, Ph.D., President, Sports Management Resources