Some people don't think it's a big deal.
You're entitled to your opinion.
Mine is based on my life experience of women's access to sport being restricted and marginalised.
I was never allowed to play as a youngster. PE teachers at Tile Hill Wood shooed us off the field when we brought our own ball and told us we weren't insured for that.
My dad told me he wouldn't take me to Kirby Corner rd for a trial with the women's team there as it was too much bother.
At university I don't think football for women existed in the 1980s.
Finally aged 61 I took up walking football. I play with women. I used to play mixed but have had 3 fractures, 2 whilst playing with men. One man hit a ball so hard it broke my wrist. So excuse me if I would like my declining years when I finally get to play a slow version of the game I love to be as safe as possible. Or perhaps I should just sit at home if a man wants to play walking football against old women.
At last things seemed to be improving.
If even one woman or girl is displaced, discouraged or asked to be kind or have sympathy and to let the boys/men into their competitions that is one too many.
The oppressed minority in sport are women, in case you hadn't noticed.
I hear where you're coming from on this, and I'm genuinely sorry that in our generation (you and I are broadly contemporaries), women's and girls football wasn't taken seriously or even was actively discouraged. That was rubbish.
Can I just make the polite observation though, that none of the problems that you've faced are because of the trans issue.
And, as above, with 29 million players, and literally a handful of trans women that you've identified, is there any real evidence that women or girls are being prevented from playing football because of this issue?
I love playing football, and useless as I've always been, I never want to quit playing or to see anyone else denied the opportunity to play.
I've got two daughters who both played and I think there are far bigger obstacles to encouraging girls to take up the sport (and continue playing it) than the trans issue, imho.
As a slight aside, it's entirely possible for there to be more than one oppressed minority here, isn't there?