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[skyblueprincess]

Text messaging has been a very popular form of communication nowadays. Most teenagers and adults rather sent their friends a few words over their phone then actually dial a number and speak to them.

Along with communicating via text allot of people also use texts for a number of other things ! Sending sweet nothings to a lover ect ect

But dumping someone by texts has become allot more popular these days, I have been dumped by text as well as dumped someone myself, (cringe)

So have you ever dumped or been dumped by text ? Is there a right or wrong way to dump someone by text? ( i used the "i dont think this is working line" ) And felt kinda bad for it afterwards !!

 

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[We'll_live_and_die]

I have been dumped by text. It is definitely a faceless way to do it, and I would avoid doing it myself. I think by doing things in person or at least by call leaves the dumped and dumper with some digninty.

 

[rob9872]

Next time just make them feel real bad by turning up with a gift and saying you never received the text. Then break down hysterically in front of them and threaten to kill yourself. Or is that too much?

 

[skyblueprincess]

Next time just make them feel real bad by turning up with a gift and saying you never received the text. Then break down hysterically in front of them and threaten to kill yourself. Or is that too much?

Hahaha you sick puppy , i like it

 

[MatthewWallis]

Yes, I've also been dumped over myspace message the worst thing was I was in France at the time and by the time I got back and read it she already had a new boyfriend

 

[rob9872]

Yes, I've also been dumped over myspace message the worst thing was I was in France at the time and by the time I got back and read it she already had a new boyfriend

If it helps your pain she was with him long before you went to France

 

[Big fella]

never by text or by social media. I have seen many public break ups through myspace and facebook though.

 

[skyblueprincess]

My mate was dumped via facebook status , (SHOULDN'T laugh but it was kinda funny and cruel at the same time )

 

[Pigeon]

One of my mates was dumped via a facebook status by him saying he'd just hooked up with a girl.

 

[skyblueprincess]

I have took a relationship status off with out telling the guy , does that class as dumping ?

 

[dutchman]

I have took a relationship status off with out telling the guy , does that class as dumping ?

I don't want to worry you but women have been murdered for less!

 

[skyblueprincess]

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I don't want to worry you but women have been murdered for less!

Well hunnie i say if you cant beat um join um lol

It official i actually hate men

 

[IrishSkyBlue]

irish men arnt that bad actually wait a sec id say we are worse lol

 

[skyblueprincess]

irish men arnt that bad actually wait a sec id say we are worse lol

Lets not go there , I tell ya my experience with Irish men = NOT GOOD (wounds are still very raw ) lol

 

[Houchens Head]

Awww Princess! Who'd wanna dump you Hun!!! X X X

 

[Covstu]

Never had to pleasure or experience in being dumped or dumping by text, FB etc. Its a bit heartless in my book! Just dont call them and they are surely going to go away, better still move home and they wont know where you have gone!

 

[SkyBluesAndy]

Never had to pleasure or experience in being dumped or dumping by text, FB etc. Its a bit heartless in my book! Just dont call them and they are surely going to go away, better still move home and they wont know where you have gone!

Best advice I've ever had lol

 

[skyblueprincess]

Never had to pleasure or experience in being dumped or dumping by text, FB etc. Its a bit heartless in my book! Just dont call them and they are surely going to go away, better still move home and they wont know where you have gone!

Hate to burst that bubble but the bunny boilers will always find you mwhahahaha

 

[skyblueprincess]

You would be surprised lol

 

[Big fella]

My mates x broke into house years ago and got into his bed! We have some crazy woman in cov

 

[skyblueprincess]

My mates x broke into house years ago and got into his bed! We have some crazy woman in cov

Oh thats just wrong on so many levels lol

 

[Covstu]

Hate to burst that bubble but the bunny boilers will always find you mwhahahaha

you worry me sometimes princess!!!

 

[oakey]

For me txts are just for quick messages like arranging events, what time etc. Many of my txts are one line or one word replies.
I would never dream of sending a serious, relationship changing message. I would rarely do serious conversations by phone either.
I talk to people face to face or I remain silent and inscrutable. I see no advantages to "conversations" by txt except for basic interactions.
I guess I am in a minority but these interactions seem trivial and unsatisfactory. I'm sure that's why you lot are glued to your phones & blackberries all day. You have a craving for real connection but are being fed a diet of trivia, gossip and superficiality.
Chuck it in a drawer! Go out for a walk in the country with a loved one.

 

[skyblueprincess]

you worry me sometimes princess!!!

Smiles sweetly ....... Just stating the FACTS my dear lol

 

[Houchens Head]

For me txts are just for quick messages like arranging events, what time etc. Many of my txts are one line or one word replies.
I would never dream of sending a serious, relationship changing message. I would rarely do serious conversations by phone either.
I talk to people face to face or I remain silent and inscrutable. I see no advantages to "conversations" by txt except for basic interactions.
I guess I am in a minority but these interactions seem trivial and unsatisfactory. I'm sure that's why you lot are glued to your phones & blackberries all day. You have a craving for real connection but are being fed a diet of trivia, gossip and superficiality.
Chuck it in a drawer! Go out for a walk in the country with a loved one.

So true!! Mind you, I'd be lost without my mobile (no bugger phones me though! I just get loads of jokes via texts!)

 

[Covstu]

Smiles sweetly ....... Just stating the FACTS my dear lol

Fair shout, just remind me never to disclose my address to you at any stage!!!

 

[bamalamafizzfazz]

For me txts are just for quick messages like arranging events, what time etc. Many of my txts are one line or one word replies.
I would never dream of sending a serious, relationship changing message. I would rarely do serious conversations by phone either.
I talk to people face to face or I remain silent and inscrutable. I see no advantages to "conversations" by txt except for basic interactions.
I guess I am in a minority but these interactions seem trivial and unsatisfactory. I'm sure that's why you lot are glued to your phones & blackberries all day. You have a craving for real connection but are being fed a diet of trivia, gossip and superficiality.
Chuck it in a drawer! Go out for a walk in the country with a loved one.

Well said that man, phones have killed the art of conversation. How often do you go to the pub and people are texting other people who are not there. It is so rude. I once was seeing someone who I did the majority of the relationship texting and then when we actually spent time together I found that she couldn't hold a conversation. It was totally boring and I got rid straight away.

Still though I love my phone and if I didn't have it you wouldn't be getting this reply right now

 

[CovLis86]

Sadly its just the way of life these days. I'm stuck to mine, and feel lost if I haven't got someone who i regularly text just to whittle away the hours. Sad isn't it when you think about it.

 

[BackRoomRummermill]

SBP why did you ask the question, a bit random unless you are mulling over it and wanted to test the reaction

 

[skyblueprincess]

SBP why did you ask the question, a bit random unless you are mulling over it and wanted to test the reaction

Oh that would be telling !! Just a question that desired an answer lol

 

[BackRoomRummermill]

Well not being an expert in these matters, a person who wishes to end a relationship in this way has a reason to end it this way if you get what I mean.

There could be many reasons to do it this way......

So I guess i would do it if and thought it best for ME, it does not make you a bad person for doing it, just a decision maybe based on good reasons and a way ahead.

 

[bamalamafizzfazz]

Well not being an expert in these matters, a person who wishes to end a relationship in this way has a reason to end it this way if you get what I mean.

There could be many reasons to do it this way......

So I guess i would do it if and thought it best for ME, it does not make you a bad person for doing it, just a decision maybe based on good reasons and a way ahead.

Or you are a coward and haven't got the balls to tell someone to their face

 

[skyblueprincess]

Or you are a coward and haven't got the balls to tell someone to their face

So what if it safer for the person to do it over text ?

I mean you do get violent partners ,

And myself personally would sooner dumb some guy via text rather than get a slap or something thrown in my direction ? Would that still make a person a coward ?

 

[CovLis86]

So what if it safer for the person to do it over text ?

I mean you do get violent partners ,

And myself personally would sooner dumb some guy via text rather than get a slap or something thrown in my direction ? Would that still make a person a coward ?

It makes the bloody partner a coward. Geez, i cannot ever understand someone who hits women. Its really a bit sad if you feel you have to do that to feel a bigger man.

 

[Covstu]

So what if it safer for the person to do it over text ?

I mean you do get violent partners ,

And myself personally would sooner dumb some guy via text rather than get a slap or something thrown in my direction ? Would that still make a person a coward ?

What kind of nutballs do you go out with????