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Sorry to hear both your stories as well. Hope they are both ok too!
Sorry to hear both your stories as well. Hope they are both ok too!my mrs attempted it Aswell by throwing herself off a bridge and underneath a hgv last may, ended up in ITC and in hospital for months, broke pretty much everything in her body and lost all her toes on her left foot.
All I can suggest is being there for him , I personally use humour in awkward situations , don’t try and force any information out of him , ask him by all means but he may not want to talk about it straight away. I hope he makes a full recovery. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you
My Daughter is making some progress but the borderline issue is literally a day to day thing. The busier we keep her the better she is.Sorry to hear that, how are they both doing now?
Don’t worry , nothing you can say. She’s almost moved back in now, walking about with a stick. Her back gives her grief from time to time, but she’s looking at getting back into work.
the funny part of the story is she ended up on ward 53 at Coventry hospital. I work in the hospital itself doing some construction work , and guess which ward I was working on at the time???
the bad part of it for me personally is I nearly drank myself to death over it, hence now I’m a boring tee total bloke who goes to support groups twice a week.
Keep her close BF. We lost our daughter 2 years ago. She got herself into debt and was in a toxic relationship. We knew nothing about it even though she was seeing someone at our local mental health centre.
She left behind an 8 year old who she adored. We will never know what was going on in her head when she did it and it drives my wife crazy wondering what she could have done to help or prevent it. I guess unless you are in that situation, you can put no logic to it.
She had no idea of the turmoil and chaos it's created in the lives of those she left behind.................
Keep her close BF. We lost our daughter 2 years ago. She got herself into debt and was in a toxic relationship. We knew nothing about it even though she was seeing someone at our local mental health centre.
She left behind an 8 year old who she adored. We will never know what was going on in her head when she did it and it drives my wife crazy wondering what she could have done to help or prevent it. I guess unless you are in that situation, you can put no logic to it.
She had no idea of the turmoil and chaos it's created in the lives of those she left behind.................
The short answer is nothing.and it drives my wife crazy wondering what she could have done to help or prevent it.
Desperately sorry to hear this.Keep her close BF. We lost our daughter 2 years ago. She got herself into debt and was in a toxic relationship. We knew nothing about it even though she was seeing someone at our local mental health centre.
She left behind an 8 year old who she adored. We will never know what was going on in her head when she did it and it drives my wife crazy wondering what she could have done to help or prevent it. I guess unless you are in that situation, you can put no logic to it.
She had no idea of the turmoil and chaos it's created in the lives of those she left behind.................
Keep her close BF. We lost our daughter 2 years ago. She got herself into debt and was in a toxic relationship. We knew nothing about it even though she was seeing someone at our local mental health centre.
She left behind an 8 year old who she adored. We will never know what was going on in her head when she did it and it drives my wife crazy wondering what she could have done to help or prevent it. I guess unless you are in that situation, you can put no logic to it.
She had no idea of the turmoil and chaos it's created in the lives of those she left behind.................
Amazing isn't it!There are some really brave and incredible people on this thread who have faced terrible adversity but have found the courage to share their stories.
Hope that doesn't sound condescending I can tell you I genuinely salute everyone of you.
I will still be over reacting to the result of a football match in the next hour or two but that's life!
Fair play to all of you.
I was impressed by your simple honesty and courage to actually post on a football "male" site which could have backfired.This thread has certainly spiralled beyond my own depressed expectations when I wrote the first post.
From a very selfish perspective I just wanted to put out what I was going through, how I felt and felt this a safe place to do so given that none of you actually know me in real life.
I’m so glad that so many of you have been able to share some of your troubles, some of you are going through some tough times and I hope that sharing here helps you all to come out of the other side.
Well done lads
His missus left back end of last year & he’d told me he was struggling dealing with it all, but never expected him to try & end it all. He’s one of them old school pull yourself together types. Or at least he used to be.
I will still be over reacting to the result of a football match in the next hour or two but that's life!
Back in 2000 or so I'd been single for a while, and had gone to Manchester to visit friends. We went to a club and I was dancing with a girl who was mates with a friend's other half, and I thought I was in, but it didn't turn out that way. The feedback I got afterwards was that the girl I danced with fancied me at first, but I came across as stinking of desperation (to be fair, I was drunk and pretty damn thirsty for skirt at that point). It really put her off, so she wasn't interested. It was a really important lesson; confidence attracts people, neediness doesn't.
If there is anyone looking to lose weight, have a read of James Smith's Not a Diet Book
No bullshit, just hard truths.
Not on a diet myself but into my fitness and so far it's a great read and would help those looking to lose a bit of timber!
He's on Instagram too if you use it, worth a follow.
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Happened to us all mate at some point mate.Got stood up for a date last night
Got stood up for a date last night
someone you'd asked in person or a dating site?Got stood up for a date last night
Everyone gets hurt, it's the way you deal with it and learn from it that makes you stronger.Snakes with tits mate, every last one of them.
Onto the next.
Snakes with tits mate, every last one of them.
Onto the next.
They really aren't. Same as not all men are (insert derogatory characteristic here).
OMG, It was a jokey throw away comment, of course I don't think that, ffs.
DittoThe short answer is nothing.
We're all human, we're all imperfect, and we all do our best. Sometimes, for whatever reason, our best isn't good enough but that doesn't have to be a reflection on you or your wife. I'm sure she did more than many. Sometimes, things can't be explained, or predicted.
My sympathies, to you all. I hope you find the peace you deserve.
Hope you are feeling better fella. There are plenty more fish in the sea, you have dodged a bullet there.Got stood up for a date last night
You never know what's going on in the other person's life either mate tbfGot stood up for a date last night
You never know what's going on in the other person's life either mate tbf
Could have at least said they weren’t going to make it or be upfront if they are not interested.
Could have at least said they weren’t going to make it or be upfront if they are not interested.
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