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CCFC88

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It has taken me quite a while to come round to posting about this, as much arguing and bickering that goes on here I have seen it work as a place to come and ask for advice/help anonymously countless times.

About this time last year my dad (66) began having issues with his sight, after numerous trips and stays at Walsgrave with no results or prognosis offered he was transferred to QE in Birmingham and on Christmas Eve 2015 he was told that he had 2 very small tumours near/on his sinus'. After undergoing radiotherapy we were told the good news in Feb/March time that the radiotherapy had killed (not sure if that s the medical term) one of the tumours and had got the second under control, which was almost the best news we could have asked for.

In the months following his eyesight has deteriorated and due to the nature/area of the tumours they have effected the nerves to his eyes and he has been told not to expect his eyesight to improve past what he has now, he can make out outlines of shapes within a certain range but cannot see any detail.

We have begun as a family to try to help him get back as much of his life as possible, a keen golfer, a City season ticket holder and a pretty sociable bloke before the illness I am really struggling for ideas on how to help him fill his time and make the most of life.

So I suppose my question is, do you know of anybody who has gone through a similar thing?

What kind of activities are there out there for blind people? I have googled and searched the internet obviously as a first port of call but this only really seems to bring back activities which are beyond a 66 year old man.

Does anyone know if City offer any sort of match day experience for blind people? I always remember being sat in the home end at Scunthorpe and seeing a bloke there who had his headphones plugged into a socket in the ground where he listened to the commentary from the local radio station whilst sat in the stand, if they have that kind of facility at Glanford park surely the Ricoh must offer something, I have emailed them and I'm awaiting a reply.

Any hints or tips would be greatly appreciated, the months where he was going through his treatment were tough but at least when that was going on you knew that you were moving in the right direction, now that the treatment has stopped and it is a case of the day to day in the new circumstances, this is starting to prove the most difficult part mentally, not just for him but for the family.

Many thanks in advance!
 

lifeskyblue

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I don't live in Coventry but in Leicester...so not sure what your dad may access.
A partner of a work colleague went blind a few years ago and it took him a long while to come to terms with it. He was encouraged to go out for walks a lot initially with the help of family/friends but also along a safe route with a white stick. This all gave him confidence and increasing independence. About a year ago he was also given a guide dog (after a lot of training) and this has given him a lot of freedom. He also has joined a few classes for the visually impaired including ceramics and says he attends more for the company than the making of objects.
He also gets newspapers/magazines/books in spoken form...he hasn't learned Braille.
My work colleague says the most difficult but has been trying to keep her partners spirits up as he regularly gets down. Keeping occupied seems to help a lot.
The following site gives details of sports for the blind but may not be what your dad can access or want.
http://www.britishblindsport.org.uk/

I will chat to my work colleague next week and ask her for any useful addresses etc


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Otis

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Good luck.

I know Bobby Gould's dad was blind and Bobby used to say he took him to City games and gave him a running commentary of what was happening in the match.
 

Nick

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You could put Sky Blue Player on your phone and let him listen? Or buy him a little FM radio? He will still hear things but might be delayed to the actual game :(
 

Otis

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Well yep, audio books are great and so too music.

What sort of music is he into?

Dependant on what he likes he may find concerts raise his spirits.

If he likes classical music at all then Warwick Uni Arts Centre is well worth a try.

They have their own student orchestra and they (well they used to anyway), have a 'dress rehearsal' in the main hall and it was free to just go along to watch or listen.

The Establishment bar used to have a jazz quartet play on a Sunday. Not sure if that is still the case or not.
 

CCFC88

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Thanks for all your suggestions, it has really opened up my eyes to the scope of things available.

I think the main issue in my head with doing competitive things such as sport is that as he has lived for 65 years being able to do those things to a good standard, now going to do them without his sight might bring him down with not being able to do them to that standard.

He is living off the radio at the moment Radio 5 Live has been a god send but the next step has to be getting him out and socialising. Things like craft session could be a good option!

I don't think the idea of a dog/stick has been put to him yet, whether he is to old to get to grips with it I am not sure but it is certainly something I will look into. I think his independence is crucial however I'm not sure my mum would be able to deal with the stress of letting him out of the house on his own but that will come with time Id imagine.
 

CCFC88

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You could put Sky Blue Player on your phone and let him listen? Or buy him a little FM radio? He will still hear things but might be delayed to the actual game :(

I set him up with Skyblue Player when he was in QE as he couldn't get a CWR signal on his radio so this would probably be the best option, I suppose it is then the logistics of getting him in and out but I see plenty of disabled city fans at games so I assume there is a lot in place already.
 

Nick

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I set him up with Skyblue Player when he was in QE as he couldn't get a CWR signal on his radio so this would probably be the best option, I suppose it is then the logistics of getting him in and out but I see plenty of disabled city fans at games so I assume there is a lot in place already.

Yes, I think if he is disabled he will get a free carers ticket and a seat without steps?
 

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