I coulda sworn Grendel said he had a trans ex boyfriend?
Maybe his bf had same views tho regarding playing sports
Some people don't think it's a big deal.
You're entitled to your opinion.
Mine is based on my life experience of women's access to sport being restricted and marginalised.
I was never allowed to play as a youngster. PE teachers at Tile Hill Wood shooed us off the field when we brought our own ball and told us we weren't insured for that.
My dad told me he wouldn't take me to Kirby Corner rd for a trial with the women's team there as it was too much bother.
At university I don't think football for women existed in the 1980s.
Finally aged 61 I took up walking football. I play with women. I used to play mixed but have had 3 fractures, 2 whilst playing with men. One man hit a ball so hard it broke my wrist. So excuse me if I would like my declining years when I finally get to play a slow version of the game I love to be as safe as possible. Or perhaps I should just sit at home if a man wants to play walking football against old women.
At last things seemed to be improving.
If even one woman or girl is displaced, discouraged or asked to be kind or have sympathy and to let the boys/men into their competitions that is one too many.
The oppressed minority in sport are women, in case you hadn't noticed.
This thread is disgusting.
As usual a minority, who has been on the receiving end of a horrific bullying campaign by the government and certain sections of our media, is vilified for a single theoretical action which a very small percentage of said group "might" be doing (with no actual evidence whatsoever).
The most vocal have very likely never even spoken to a trans woman, but don't let that stop you from jumping on the outrage bandwagon.
I’m sorry - did you consider my question about whether you had any sympathy with trans people who wanted to take part in women’s sport to be misogynistic?
This thread is disgusting.
As usual a minority, who has been on the receiving end of a horrific bullying campaign by the government and certain sections of our media, is vilified for a single theoretical action which a very small percentage of said group "might" be doing (with no actual evidence whatsoever).
The most vocal have very likely never even spoken to a trans woman, but don't let that stop you from jumping on the outrage bandwagon.
I'm not sure it's disgusting in the context of the thread?
It's about competitive sport and the mixture of trans women v women. I'm really not sure why it's an issue if they said "Actually, you were a male up until a couple of years ago. Testosterone, 6 foot, athletic etc so you aren't going to play football against women.
People have chosen to look at my comment and decide I'm talking about the argument of trans people in sport. I'm not. I see there is a discussion to be had by those involved, with regards to biological advantages.
But multiple comments about trans women not being women are disgusting. It's been used as a distraction tactic by our current government and sections of the media, to seed hate and division. We've already been down this road with the gay community (and are still on it), telling members of society they can't be gay and that they won't be seen. We are now, again, ignoring the experience of the individual because we think we know how others feel, and what they're going through.
My understanding is that there are (a very small number of) people who genuinely, sincerely consider themselves to be women, and who want to play women’s sport not because they want to invade women’s spaces, or unfairly dominate a less competitive sporting category, but because they feel safer and more comfortable playing with people they identify with.Why sympathy? The clue is in the name, "women's sport".
I'm pretty sure if I was drafted in for an under 10's team I'd be amazing, any sympathy for me that I can't?
Yes it is wrong if your aim is then to shame them into "be kind", just let them, how they have suffered, don't be mean ...My understanding is that there are (a very small number of) people who genuinely, sincerely consider themselves to be women, and who want to play women’s sport not because they want to invade women’s spaces, or unfairly dominate a less competitive sporting category, but because they feel safer and more comfortable playing with people they identify with.
Maybe you disagree, and you think those people are all just deranged and/or opportunists. I can see why you’d have no sympathy for anyone like that (I certainly wouldn’t). And a trans person being genuine and sincere in their intentions doesn’t automatically mean I think they should get a free pass either. But is it wrong to ask someone if they sympathise with their situation?
I see what you're saying but language matters. If calling a transgender male a woman is just being polite then not many people care. But if it leads to the expectation that she/they/he can access everything women have then No.
Don't think so. This is a disputed area of law.It's nothing to do with being polite, it's part of the equalities act - so the law. I really don't think people understand this. You continuously calling trans women "men" is discrimination, BY LAW, and I don't understand why you have to keep doing it to make your point.
I’m not trying to shame anyone. And I don’t see why something as trivial as having sympathy for either women or trans people needs to come at the expense of the other.Yes it is wrong if your aim is then to shame them into "be kind", just let them, how they have suffered, don't be mean ...
My sympathy is mainly for the women and girls who have only just got some opportunities to play sport, to make a career in it, to have some success, medals, rewards etc.
Even one male being made room for is one too many.
Don't think so. This is a disputed area of law.
It is being tested in many cases and tribunals as we speak.
The EA (2010) is in need of clarification as you will know if you follow the news.
There is no "think" about it. It doesn't matter, the Equalities Act is in force at this time, and trans people are protected under it. So no, you can't just run around calling trans women "men". I'm also going to assume that you wouldn't go up to trans women and call them "men", even though you are typing it here anonymously online.
Yeah but you refer to them as 'women' which is simply men with 'wo' on the front so you effectively are.Have read back my posts and struggled to find any example of me specifically calling trans women "men".
If they've had their dick chopped off they are, otherwise they're blokes in a dress.By the same token, surely you can't just run around calling trans women "women" because they're not are they? They are trans women.
Have read back my posts and struggled to find any example of me specifically calling trans women "men".
Equality Act 2010 allows single sex exemptions for sport. It seems the FA doesn't care enough to apply it correctly.
If you are transgender you cannot be discriminated against in employment, housing, benefits etc.
There are exemptions and the current issues around sport, prisons, refuges, changing rooms is when these exemptions are disputed.
By the same token, surely you can't just run around calling trans women "women" because they're not are they? They are trans women.
I don't think we're going to agree on this but I think the Equality Act does provide some protections to individuals in nine protected characteristics but these are limited and have exemptions.There is no "think" about it. It doesn't matter, the Equalities Act is in force at this time, and trans people are protected under it. So no, you can't just run around calling trans women "men". I'm also going to assume that you wouldn't go up to trans women and call them "men", even though you are typing it here anonymously online.
My understanding is that there are (a very small number of) people who genuinely, sincerely consider themselves to be women, and who want to play women’s sport not because they want to invade women’s spaces, or unfairly dominate a less competitive sporting category, but because they feel safer and more comfortable playing with people they identify with.
Maybe you disagree, and you think those people are all just deranged and/or opportunists. I can see why you’d have no sympathy for anyone like that (I certainly wouldn’t). And a trans person being genuine and sincere in their intentions doesn’t automatically mean I think they should get a free pass either. But is it wrong to ask someone if they sympathise with their situation?
The scenario you’re describing doesn’t exist, whereas trans people do.In which case why not have a Trans League?
Like I said, if I was to consider myself a 10 year old would people expect me to play against 10 year olds even though biologically Im not?
I don't think we're going to agree on this but I think the Equality Act does provide some protections to individuals in nine protected characteristics but these are limited and have exemptions.
As I said these are being tested in law and being "misgendered" can only be used as an aggravating factor as part of wider discrimination in employment tribunals etc.
There is no legal protection against being misgendered per se under the current law.
In practice courts, news organisations etc use preferred pronouns as they don't want to engage in protracted litigation.
Who is going to play in that?In which case why not have a Trans League?
The scenario you’re describing doesn’t exist, whereas trans people do.
Although if you think trans people are the same as someone pretending to be 10 years old then I can certainly understand you taking a harder position against their participation.
A trans league is at least a constructive idea for a solution, although I don’t see how it solves today’s problem.
To the extent that trans people consider themselves to be another gender? How many people are we talking about? What’s the term for them? I’m honestly not aware it was a thing.You will find there are plenty of people who consider themselves as a child while biologically they aren't.
No, the law states trans women can identify as women.
Less than that. It's basically when you just say this is what I am, to get off a conviction of eg running someone overOK. I'm learning here. Is there a definition in law of when a trans women stops being a man?
Is it the rather obvious post-op answer or is it simply the point that Holly plucks her eyebrows on the way, shaved her legs & then he was a she?
OK. I'm learning here. Is there a definition in law of when a trans women stops being a man?
Is it the rather obvious post-op answer or is it simply the point that Holly plucks her eyebrows on the way, shaved her legs & then he was a she?
I know (personally, not anecdotally) of a trans-woman who plays for their university's women's football team, along with two other trans-women. That is not only conferring an unfair physical advantage on other women's teams but also denies three "cis-women" (i include the quotation marks because i find the term offensive to women) their places in the team.
And that doesn't even begin to address the issue of safe spaces for women to change/shower, etc - which ARE exempt from the provisions of EA 2010.
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