Otis
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Agree. Luckily, my daughter has good friends and seems to hang out with the right people and I know she isn't hanging around on street corners at night, which is a real bonus.With having 7 kids we have had perfect and we have had difficult. Youngest is slightly difficult.
No you can't control everything. But you can't give up either. I carry out every threat. The wife doesn't. They do as I say as soon as I say. They ignore the wife and the wife asks me why. When I say it is because she doesn't always follow through with what she says she makes excuses.
A lot of what happens with them is down to the company they keep. That is the difficult part as you can't watch them all day every day.
It's similar with my wife too. My daughter doesn't obey orders from my wife, but she always does from me.