Adge... serious question... hopefully an open and honest answer.... why did you want to be a referee, i know you said it was to help your lad out but why? If there is another reason.
I know referees cannot spot everything but some just havent got any idea about the game and wouldnt spot a foul if it was on them... they are invariably behind play because their fitness levels are poor and again I know they cannot be everywhere especially on a quick break but how many times do we have to watch idiotic bookings that are not even fouls but cheating bastards conning the partially sighted tunnel visioned blind incompetents called referees
Honest answer Steve (but as usual some will disagree no doubts) to still be involved in the game that we all love which is football. Nothing more/nothing less. No power trip-no ego, just football but from a different viewpoint or perspective.
I won’t have it that they (or assistant referees as explained in another post) are always behind play as they regularly would be taking a fitness test for that level of football that they are officiating in which currently is L1. So all our officials that we see on a Saturday would have passed that test.
It’s a very poor choice of words that they are blind incompetents, they are not bias and obviously mistakes are made as they are human as are the players.
“All we want on a Saturday afternoon is a bit of consistency” is a favourite that we used to hear repeatedly. Well now we have VAR at the top level which is 100% consistent like it or not, but still people complain even though they can see it themselves, sometimes on the screen at the ground.
So in conclusion unless you have done it and are a fan/coach/parent on the side or in the stands the Referee will always be the villain.
My only regret is that I didn’t start earlier and probably would have had a good fist of getting higher than I am already.