Sky_Blue_Dreamer
Well-Known Member
I agree with a lot of this Dreamer; football is an emotional game and that what makes it different.
But I might be alone on this; I've just never understood the need to scream abuse at our own players from the stands for perceived mistakes. It's a very dynamic game, with decisions made in a split second with many moving parts. It might be the case for example that the player who is initially viewed to have made the mistake - has been dragged way out of position to cover for another one of our players.
Anyway point really is, I would say I care about this club as much as anyone else. Do I go along to scream abuse at our players after we go a couple of goals down. Not my thing as it's completely counterproductive to the team and individuals in the team. Last season I saw AB subbed and being subjected to some entirely needless abuse as he walked off the pitch. I will never get it, frustration or not.
I've also never shouted abuse at one of our players, but I do regularly show signs of frustration and anger at bad passes or mistakes with a tut or a sigh, mixed in with the occassional "what the fuck was that?" To call an individual player shit is counterproductive. But it seems for some they can't help themselves. I've always been of an opinion it's to do with being emotionally repressed and closed and this gives them an opportunity to vent their feelings in a way they see as less damaging than doing so elsewhere like at home or work.