Astute
Well-Known Member
You should be helping all the time. Then there is no comeback. You will know how hard and stressful her job is.I know she appreciates all the little gestures but periodically I leave something out/don’t wash up and she flips a lid. To be honest two full time teachers probably are going to have to accept a dirty house at busy times but she burns herself out trying to do it all.
Just remember if kids come along your life won't be your own anymore. If she flips now it could get unbearable at times.
And when it gets unbearable you can always do the same as me. Send them off to live in another country