Yes I think his brother died. Baker was a big help to a friend of mine who was fund raising for 'Help The Heroes', and obviously loved playing for us so have always felt a little uneasy when posters have thrown back handed insults his way. I like to think most has just been banter but some posts seemed to have a nastier edge to them. He was also a better player than a lot gave him credit for, particularly in League 1.
As for playing in the same team as his son, I think that's fantastic. I know how proud I was to play in the same cricket team as my son, but cricket is an easier sport to play in as you get older, at League cricket level anyway, so doing so in football at semi-pro level is quite an achievement. Good luck to them!