Enjoyed it. Very intriguing and so many things seemed to point to the boyfriend.Back on again, last night's was very weird.
Enjoyed it. Very intriguing and so many things seemed to point to the boyfriend.
He was quite clearly on the autistic spectrum and probably had ocd, probably undiagnosed due to his age and the lack of acknowledgement of ASD back in the day. Explains all of his odd behaviours.
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Yes, true, but he told police he hadn't said he was a doctor, but they had footage of him clearly saying he was one and he also said in one of his interviews he would not use the word 'controlling', but that's exactly what he said about the dog.Mostly the police and the editing of the programme I'd say.
Yes, true, but he told police he hadn't said he was a doctor, but they had footage of him clearly saying he was one and he also said in one of his interviews he would not use the word 'controlling', but that's exactly what he said about the dog.
The girlfriend's family also said that he was violent.
He was basically a liar, or a fantasist.
I liked the Yoga bit where the copper had to hold her laugh in.
For comfort purposes.Commando as well.
He was quite clearly on the autistic spectrum and probably had ocd, probably undiagnosed due to his age and the lack of acknowledgement of ASD back in the day. Explains all of his odd behaviours.
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Bit worried he has now put himself out there in the public spotlight.Yes, thought he was on the autism spectrum as soon as I saw him, mannerisms were a big giveaway. I actually really felt for him at the end tbh.
Yes, thought he was on the autism spectrum as soon as I saw him, mannerisms were a big giveaway. I actually really felt for him at the end tbh.
Hmm, not bad as such, but a bit incompetent and naive, as if they had never come across an autistic person before.What I don't get is why the police didn't or they didnt show that side? Obviously we just saw snippets of it all so they may well have had in depth meetings, they just showed that "expert" speak to him and then make out he was a weird monster while she had some biscuits. The same as when they said the other copper said about him being one of the strangest people they had ever met (towards the start).
It made the police look quite bad I thought.
Hmm, not bad as such, but a bit incompetent and naive, as if they had never come across an autistic person before.
What I don't get is why the police didn't or they didnt show that side? Obviously we just saw snippets of it all so they may well have had in depth meetings, they just showed that "expert" speak to him and then make out he was a weird monster while she had some biscuits. The same as when they said the other copper said about him being one of the strangest people they had ever met (towards the start).
It made the police look quite bad I thought.
Very irresponsible programme, all the stuff about the family thinking he was guilty is trial by media. Disgusting. If he is on the autism spectrum then it's essentially discrimination.
They should have been at last able to identify possible symptoms for his behaviour and have an inkling he might possibly be autistic.That's the thing, my wife fell asleep after about 20 minutes and she just assumed he had done it because of it all.
The police kept saying how he was "calm and collective" as if he was some sort of psycho murderer. It was more like he didn't fully understand what was going on and didn't really know how to deal with it.
very good - it did'nt just add up -although he did'nt seem to be upset at her loss - once the aquaintance said he would make a spreadsheet for everything - the OCD was clear - she liked a drop - Commando moment was priceless
Agree. The neatness is the compulsive part of ocd. The obsessive part can be debilitating and terrifying.Personal bugbear: OCD isn’t about neatness. It’s more like a terrifying feeling of dread and sometimes voices that tell you terrible things will happen if you don’t do X.
Bugs me that it’s become a synonym for being anal when it’s a debhilitating mental illness.
Consider me educated ! - i have the tidyness bit and sqaure edges my wife does'ntPersonal bugbear: OCD isn’t about neatness. It’s more like a terrifying feeling of dread and sometimes voices that tell you terrible things will happen if you don’t do X.
Bugs me that it’s become a synonym for being anal when it’s a debhilitating mental illness.
Good episode.
It was thenprogramme who made it look like the bf. He was a bit unconventional but I think we all agree why. Amazing how it always goes.
The big giveaway is when you are asked a direct question of “did you kill her?” He replied “absolutely not, no!”
Evidence shows if a suspect answers this way they are innocent 90% of the time which I find fascinating.
They don't, it's usually 'pobably not.'Consider me educated ! - i have the tidyness bit and sqaure edges my wife does'nt
What would anyone guilty answer ?
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What would anyone guilty answer ?
I did not 100% swear at Kevin wanker Nolan on Friday in front of my wife :jawdrop:
Did wonder at first if he was just being a twat like a lot of the people shown are but it quickly became apparent he wasn't. And of course the family were known to police so they should have noticed something was up straight away.The one last night was strange, it was clear the first time he was in the police station he had issues. It didn't need a genius to see notice that.
Did wonder at first if he was just being a twat like a lot of the people shown are but it quickly became apparent he wasn't. And of course the family were known to police so they should have noticed something was up straight away.
Whats very clear from programs like this and Ambulance on the beeb is how much work is being pushed on to the emergency services due to cuts elsewhere. Makes you wonder how they have time to do their actual jobs. Whole system seems on the brink of collapse.
Chap last night was a prime example. Severe mental health problems yet there was nobody anywhere in the system that had the resources to take ownership of the situation and get him the help he needed.
Did wonder at first if he was just being a twat like a lot of the people shown are but it quickly became apparent he wasn't. And of course the family were known to police so they should have noticed something was up straight away.
Whats very clear from programs like this and Ambulance on the beeb is how much work is being pushed on to the emergency services due to cuts elsewhere. Makes you wonder how they have time to do their actual jobs. Whole system seems on the brink of collapse.
Chap last night was a prime
xample. Severe mental health problems yet there was nobody anywhere in the system that had the resources to take ownership of the situation and get him the help he needed.
Did wonder at first if he was just being a twat like a lot of the people shown are but it quickly became apparent he wasn't. And of course the family were known to police so they should have noticed something was up straight away.
Whats very clear from programs like this and Ambulance on the beeb is how much work is being pushed on to the emergency services due to cuts elsewhere. Makes you wonder how they have time to do their actual jobs. Whole system seems on the brink of collapse.
Chap last night was a prime example. Severe mental health problems yet there was nobody anywhere in the system that had the resources to take ownership of the situation and get him the help he needed.