Good for her telling him to back off. Absolutely within her right to do so. He's a fucking coward and needs to be warned off in no uncertain terms by the school.
We try, but we don’t have the resources and probably more pressing we just don’t get given the time to do so.Wow, all that at 14???
Mine is 15 and not had those issues yet but I dread to think.
Schools are doing a bit more about "healthy relationships" nowadays but not really enough.
Some boys just don’t understand how to process or rationalise rejection. It can then manifest itself in misogyny (unintended and intended) and aggression. Kids are taught about consent, but the link tends to associate it with sexual activity when in fact it also needs to include unwanted attention.
It's always been there. Women are more empowered in relationships than they used to be (including whether to be in them!), and that doesn't go down well with some men.
I was focussing on the general issues of behaviour towards girls raised by others in this thread, not the killing aspect. Apologies for not making that clear.
It's been like that since I was a teenager. Perhaps now some don't expect rejection and think they have a right to take what they understand to be theirs by right.
I see someone has been arrested for planning to rape and murder Holly Willoughby along these lines.
He's been tried and sentenced to life, with a minimum tariff of 16 years.
I think porn definitely plays a part. I see these kids talking about back shots and choking out etc when in fucking year 8.
Daily wow
Page 3 was essentially porn though and it’s existed for centuries and there’s nothing morally wrong with men and women watching porn.
At my last school we had cases of Year 7s sending nudes to each other. Phones and technology kept unchecked have caused huge damage for people who aren’t being kept safe in using them
I have no idea if true but my gut feeling would be the females in new generations try more acts than previous generations because it's normalised through porn
If people experiment more then it means both genders are doing so and is normal as society changes (not talking about choking and slapping).
Yeah. Porn is changing society. That's all I mean really. Some negatives to that though of course
Yes, but there is an overlap. If you've got young boys seeing some of the degrading stuff out there then their ideas and expectations will be being warped at a very impressionable age. If some of the first things they see regarding sex are women being treated like pieces of meat then that is what they'll grow up thinking it's like.
It’s more the internet and the ease of access to the variation of it rather than porn itself.
It’s people going down rabbit holes, in my view. And it’s never been easier to get sucked into them now, more so when you’re a child or teenager who doesn’t know any better.
I think the issue is also these people blurring lines between the bedroom/role playing and everyday society.
I'd say social media definitely made the misogny worse, as there's an easy way to get in contact with others that think the same way and get in an echo chamber. But at the same time if the stuff like porn wasn't there there wouldn't be that visual confirmation that women are there to gratify males.
