So if somebody was brought up on the Kenilworth Road but then got a job in McDonalds on 11K a year. Should they just be given a 500k house for cheap?
Totally get where you're coming from and there's no doubt there's a group of people who happily piss their money away and then complain but don't think that's the case for everyone. In my mind if you're working full time you should be able to afford a half decent standard of living.
For me the issue is, and I can only speak personally, how my situation compares to my parents.
My Dad did the same job from leaving school, with little in the way of qualifications, to retirement. It was strictly 9-5. Off the back of that he always had a newish car, couple of holidays a year and a nice detached house that's now worth the best part of £500K. His pension every month is more than my salary.
Now I'm not saying everything was brilliant for him and there wasn't times when it was tough but by contrast I spent four years at Uni studying Computer Science, and came out with a nice debt, and work in what he would consider a 'better' job.
I'm lucky if my work week is less than 60 hours - with no overtime or TOIL plus evening and weekend calls are the norm.
I drive a heap of shit 12 year old car that's done 130K miles, as having a car is a requirement of my job. My last holiday was a long weekend camping in Devon in 2013, in my adult life I've been on 9 holidays, and one of those was my wedding and 3 of them were long weekends rather than a week on a beach.
Buying a 2 bed terrace has pushed my finances to the absolute limit. Even pre-covid I couldn't even tell you the last time I went to a pub or restaurant or had a takeaway. If by some miracle the stress doesn't kill me before I reach the ever increasing retirement age I'll be lucky to be able to afford to retire judging by my pension statements.
Don't get me wrong, I'm well aware that there are many people in a far worse position than me but not everyone is living the life racking up huge credit card bills.