And trying to twist everything as usual I see.
EU army a long term goal? Yes because they couldn't do it overnight. Most countries would rebel. Germany and France hold all the cards. But even they couldn't do it quickly. Now the French PM wants a German put in place that even most of the Germans don't want because they k ow all about her. But the Germans in charge don't want to rock the boat with France so they abstained from the vote.
Would you like to call any of this wrong? You have lived in Germany most of your life so you can't play at being clueless here.
And yes those running the EU should tell Macron that he can't have who he wants as she doesn't have the qualifications and isn't a 'clean' candidate. I am not changing my mind to suit as you do. I am being consistent. Someone without the set out qualifications within the rules shouldn't get a top position.
There is no chance of an EU army as a separate entity at the moment. So it is a long term goal.
The reason why Merkel abstained has nothing to do with not rocking the boat. She backed Von der Leyen without consulting with the coalition partners. Now the SPD are up in arms and the CDU have said if the SPD don’t vote for V d L, then there will be far reaching changes in the coalition.
Most of the Germans would be happy enough with a German after 50 years without one as president.
There are 27 heads of state, so it’s not just Macron‘s vote that nominated V der L.
On the plus side:
She is an experienced politician, was brought up in Brussels and speaks several languages fluently.
On the negative side:
The Bundeswehr is in disarray and there is an investigation into why so much was spent on Consultants.
She has been nominated not appointed.
There are no set out qualifications as it is a political position, not a career civil servant position.
Apart from that you are right.