"You on the other hand are going to spend 90 minutes in the car and 2 hours in a freezing cold, empty soulless stadium. If I'm pitying anyone it won't be myself. "
The inference is clearly there....
He suggested we would be sitting at home self pitting while he had a great night, my post means I think I'm going to have a nicer night than you are (him) so if I certainly won't be self pitying, if I were to pity one of the two of us it would be him, but it doesn't suggest im going to pity someone, he/she will not cross my mind the entire evening, if I were to sit there pitying someone it would be people starving in africa or something certainly not someone watching a football game in the cold.