Bit of a strange one.
We live in a nice area. But the senior school should be doing much better. It is in a great location... right at the side of a beach. It has some real good teachers. But yes plenty of kids that mess about.
My 17 year old got invited to the local private school as she has always done well. I would only have paid half the fees and the school would have funded the rest. They need pupils like her to keep their pass marks high. But when I gave her the choice she chose the local school as she wanted to be with her friends. She ended up with her A*'s including both English. She has friends that did just as well. But the school still underachieved.
And she made the right choice. The private school is now fully government funded and free to go to. Their grades have plunged. A good school ruined.
You have to be on the ball these days. I always communicate with my children's schools. Sort out any problems as they arise. I even found out there was one teacher bullying my daughter. So I paid him a visit and we had words. He left her alone after that. Wish I took it further though as he got the sack a year later for bullying.....
We went in to see the head teacher, it took her about 5 minutes to realise which kid we were on about and knew absolutely nothing about her. She had to go and get her teacher who basically said how amazing she was and that she was helping the other kids in class learn how to read. (Think she was about 5 at the time). She was coming home and wanting to read grown up books and learn things herself as they were just giving her colouring pages to do once she had done the work to keep her occupied.
They were more focused on fire fighting the little twatty kids who were naughty or getting the kids who were way under achieving up to standards rather than push her further. It wasn't the teachers individual fault, they were dealing with about 30 kids so didn't have time to think about giving her more advanced stuff. It baffled her that "naughty kids" got rewarded for not being naughty, it didn't set a good example.
She didn't go back to that school the next term.
Can see the appeal of paying to go private if it's a decent school where they have the resources to make them thrive.