It is very difficult to have an open conversation about it as there is a lot of emotion involved I know, but about the age thing, people really do need to get some perspective. Of course, there are exceptions, and nothing is for granted, but have a look at these numbers here. This is regarding the data in the Netherlands which shows that since the beginning of time - 162 people have died of Covid under the age of 49.
Link here:
Netherlands: coronavirus deaths by age 2021 | Statista
And before anyone says, ´so you don´t care about old people´, please don´t try that deflection. It is boring, juvenile, and not true.