Yes, I can see that, but the attitude of some was "you lost, get over it". The hard brexiteers saw this "right wing coup" as an opportunity to push through deregulation of worker's rights and enviromental rules. A free for all. Having tried to ignore the remainers, and at the same time some louder figures pushing for a hard Brexit, there should be no surprise at the pushback from people who see that the way Brexit that is evolving won't have economic benefits for most people and is not the answer to the wealth and opportunity gap. May and co don't want the Norway model as they say it doesn't stop FOM. Stopping FOM is seen as a major reason for Brexit by many.
I see the problem of a second referendum landing a similar result to the first and therefore confirming the stalemate. The Norway model would have been more acceptable to most people, but it does look as if the relatively narrow victory was taken literally as 'the will of the people' by some, and expectations were high that we would just leave having used our strong hand to get a cake and eat it deal. The victors have screwed it up, but they will blame May.
So now it's back to the reality of a totally split country with the threat of another referendum looming. This has proved 1. that we are not good at referenda, and 2. the EU of 27 sovereign nations is actually capable of working together to acheive an aim. Neither of which was considered by the people who wanted a referendum.