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Evo1883

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Weirdos , the lot of them , absolute danger to kids
 

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JAM See

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Evo1883

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Maybe we should make the transgender kids have their own water fountains, and not use the ones reserved for the white non-transgender kids.

Freak , we are talking about kids as young as 4 you absolute tampon...
 

shmmeee

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You cannot make anybody non-binary or transgender, any more than you can make anybody gay. The proposal is simply aimed at allowing kids a safe space and not challenging them. In fact, it's about not enforcing the view of another, outside of parenthood. Approbation and correction to behave in a binary way is damaging. I know.

Not going to get into this because I know it’s personal, but literally no one is taking about behaving “in a binary way”.
 
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shmmeee

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Fuck personal , keep these weird fuxkers away from young kids

Think that’s over the line mate TBH.

I agree four year olds shouldn’t be taught tumblr gender ideology. I have no problem with adults behaving however makes them feel comfortable as long as they’re not bothering harming anyone else.

Edit: bothering was the wrong word
 

Evo1883

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Think that’s over the line mate TBH.

I agree four year olds shouldn’t be taught tumblr gender ideology. I have no problem with adults behaving however makes them feel comfortable as long as they’re not bothering anyone else.

Neither do I... leave the kids alone , I crossed no line .. governments are crossing lines coming after the kids
 

shmmeee

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What is this fringe ideology?

Can you tell me what the following words mean:

- sex
- gender
- trans
- gender identity

Because whatever you say will not be consistent with a bunch of other people with similar beliefs and isn’t believed by the vast majority of people. That’s what makes it fringe.

There’s also a very basic safeguarding element here. You shouldn’t keep secrets about kids from parents. That’s literally rule one.
 

JAM See

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Freak , we are talking about kids as young as 4 you absolute tampon...
A: Happy to be a (beautiful) Freak.
B: Kids as young as four are still human beings and should be listened to. I'm sure you'd agree. If you don't agree with listening to children, please expand.
C: I wish I was an actual tampon. I could use myself for five days a month and save a load of money.
 

Evo1883

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Can you tell me what the following words mean:

- sex
- gender
- trans
- gender identity

Because whatever you say will not be consistent with a bunch of other people with similar beliefs and isn’t believed by the vast majority of people. That’s what makes it fringe.

There’s also a very basic safeguarding element here. You shouldn’t keep secrets about kids from parents. That’s literally rule one.


Not only that , the SNP are putting teachers welfare in danger as I can't imagine too many parents would take it so well
 

shmmeee

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Not only that , the SNP are putting teachers welfare in danger as I can't imagine too many parents would take it so well

The SNP are doing with a lot of this stuff what Blair tried to do with immigration and it never ends well. People don’t like government enacting change without a democratic mandate. Pretending this is a closed debate is disingenuous.
 

shmmeee

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A: Happy to be a (beautiful) Freak.
B: Kids as young as four are still human beings and should be listened to. I'm sure you'd agree. If you don't agree with listening to children, please expand.
C: I wish I was an actual tampon. I could use myself for five days a month and save a load of money.

Mate my daughter wanted to be Spider-Man when she was 4. And a mechanic.
 
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shmmeee

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More like you can't articulate your fears because you don't quite know what you are fearful of, nor have had the experience of your living your life in very real, true fear, more than a black man, more than a women, more than a muslin.

Are you genuinely claiming trans people in this country have more to fear than a black person, a woman, or a Muslim? Or have I misread that?
 

shmmeee

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I believe they all have very clear definitions, and it is only those who are ignorant, wish to confuse or do not wish to engage in rational discussion who would say opposite.

I think you raise a valid point of discussion regards your latter point. I'd have to think on that. I think my first reaction is that teachers do indeed have a safeguarding issue, and that sharing a child's admission with a parent could have very serious consequences.

Thats not a teachers call to make as any teacher will tell you. Literally rule 1 of every safeguarding session I’ve attended: don’t promise you can keep secrets.

If the words have a simple definition, give it.
 
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Evo1883

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May I ask- who are you talking about- the teachers?

The government , its the SNP that are doing this not the teachers ..I don't know how they feel about it I'd imagine not entirely comfortable
 

Evo1883

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Isn’t that sort of the point that the Scottish government is making? Leave kids alone to identify how they feel is right for them.

I can't sorry... shouldn't have raised it on here should have known better , educated yes ...absolutely miles away from reality...yes

Educated people are making these decisions too .

Maybe the system Is just broken
 

shmmeee

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Isn’t that sort of the point that the Scottish government is making? Leave kids alone to identify how they feel is right for them.

We simply don’t know enough about this topic to make that decision. We don’t know why there’s a sudden rise in teenage transition in girls, we don’t know what evidence exists gender identity is a real thing it what causes dysphoria and how permanent it is. This sort of thing can be a signifier of abuse, it can be a fleeting thought, it can be a misunderstanding and playing into it can have consequences we don’t understand.

Would you be OK with the school supporting anorexia if the child feels they are fat? After all kid knows best. What about suicide if they feel there’s no point? Kid knows best.

It’s obviously not that simple and while it sounds nice to say, it’s not a sensible position. Kids aren’t adults and we don’t treat them as such for a reason.

Moreover you’re talking about an ideology the majority don’t believe in and for which there is scant evidence. It’s simply not the states place to teach that sort of stuff. This is closer to religion than science right now. There’s no democratic or scientific mandate for putting it in the curriculum.
 

Evo1883

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Do you know that in my daughters year , she anticipates that around 30% of girls (not boys ) are bisexual ? 10/11 year olds

Besides being statistically abnormal , it also goes to show that kids follow trends , and are not entirely capable of making decisions based on their future or reality .

Dangerous games they want to play when it brings gender and transitioning into play , it's an even bigger wormhole
 

shmmeee

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Do you know that in my daughters year , she anticipates that around 30% of girls (not boys ) are bisexual ?

Besides being statistically abnormal , it also goes to show that kids follow trends , and are not entirely capable of making decisions based on their future or reality .

Dangerous games they want to play when it brings gender and transitioning into play

Bisexuality has been rising for a while. Most people are probably a little bit bi. Sexuality has nothing to do with this stuff TBH.
 

skybluetony176

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I can't sorry... shouldn't have raised it on here should have known better , educated yes ...absolutely miles away from reality...yes

Educated people are making these decisions too .

Maybe the system Is just broken
Who’s reality? Like Dubed said “You cannot make anybody non-binary or transgender, any more than you can make anybody gay”. If your reality is you’re non binary, transgender, gay or whatever then this is their reality. Isn’t it better that these children have a safe environment to express themselves without fear?
 

shmmeee

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I note dubed has stepped out of this convo and I’m genuinely sorry to see that, their voice would be valuable but like hill in the racism thread I totally get that they’ve better things to do than have this debate. I think I’ll take that as a hint to leave the topic alone, but that debate needs to be had and resolved before governments mandate the result not after.
 

shmmeee

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Who’s reality? Like Dubed said “You cannot make anybody non-binary or transgender, any more than you can make anybody gay”. If your reality is you’re non binary, transgender, gay or whatever then this is their reality. Isn’t it better that these children have a safe environment to express themselves without fear?

Why do you think the number of girls transitioning has skyrocketed in recent years?
 

Evo1883

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Who’s reality? Like Dubed said “You cannot make anybody non-binary or transgender, any more than you can make anybody gay”. If your reality is you’re non binary, transgender, gay or whatever then this is their reality. Isn’t it better that these children have a safe environment to express themselves without fear?

If that's the case then why do so many people who transition wish they never and want to revert back ?

If they become what they are , then why do they want to change it after surgery?
 

shmmeee

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How exactly were you proposing to provide a counter-argument to my experience?

I was just asking for clarification. Though I might point to the stats on attacks on various groups I’d rather not play oppression olympics at all TBH.

To be clear, I’d genuinely like to hear your thoughts on this. I’ve asked several good faith questions with that aim. I get evo is being a bit of a prick, and it’s not the best forum for that though.

But equally, your experience isn’t the only one that’s valid. Other people exist with their own life experiences and their own stakes in this debate.
 

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