In 2017 I’d agree totally - and more galling is that fact that people in the party tried their hardest to undermine from within. The momentum and public feeling was there then. However the moment we turned away from not respecting the vote we were done for (I said this repeatedly at the time too) - we helped to kick the can down the road and it got solely pinned on us. (See the LD taking the brunt for the 2010-15 coalition)
They only had to get one thing right and it was enough for them. As a country we have gone around the world critiquing other countries for not adhering to democracy - and we didn’t even look inwards at ourselves. It could have been Johnson, Gove even bloody Rees-Mogg or Patel, they would still have won in 2019.
And sadly I have to agree.
The Brexit vote was massive for us. Our plans had always been to live in France after retirement. Suddenly our long term plan had gone. We ended up deciding it was best for the wife to move away with the kids. And now this bloody virus has made the situation much worse. My kids don't know when they will see their dad again.
But yes I fully understand and agree with your point on not going against the majority. Something else I constantly got slaughtered for.
Something else the Tories should always be remembered for. They used having a referendum as a bribe to the electorate when it looked they wouldn't win. Then they ran a fear campaign instead of stating all the proper reasons for staying in the EU. And politics have been pathetic ever since.
Have no policies? Not a problem. Just rip apart the policies from the other sides. Need a new leader? Elect a clown.